However, 6 months later, we broke up again yesterday. I worked on myself. During no contact, he realised he still loved me and 3 months later, he came back. Twice. My ex came back. You don’t want to get back together with your ex before 4-6 months have passed anyway. Few days in relationship with him and ex come back to me full of ‘love’ and asked me back. He broke up with me in March last year. All the advice on this forum will help you move on. If you did that, they might come back to you because they are trying to ease the guilt they feel. It's been over 8 months now and we are still apart. Then came back in early April when I went NC. The one who told you how much you meant to … The love letter is so true – thanjs for writing it up plainly. The Real Reason Why Your Exes Come Back When You're Over ... ... *eyeroll* It's your ex. Months later I met new guy. Alden says May 10, 2020 . 2. I have changed my entire outlook on relationships and humans and how we work after my ex came back over 2 months ago and I ended up saying no after thinking Id always say yes. Then he broke up in May. Guilt: If you handled the breakup poorly by trying to talk your ex into getting back together, you likely tried to make them feel guilty about how they hurt you by breaking up with you.. I know if I stick to NC he will come back … Told me he was unhappy, didn’t see a future and didn’t love me anymore. As he already left me 2 times and didn’t care about me for so many months I rejected him. Then he broke up with me again in March this year. 100%… And if I’m being honest here, from my experience I’d rather be dumped then being the dumper and I’ll tell you why. Yeah, that one, the guy who ripped your heart out and then stomped on it -- and then was adamant about how he wanted to "stay friends." But there are some … My ex broke up with me first time due to codependence. Chances of hearing from your ex years later are almost as high as hearing from him or her in the first month. For example, perhaps the two of you ended on bad terms or you were completely blindsided by the breakup, and your ex may feel compelled to come back and apologize and/or set the record straight once and for all. Came back in June. The reason for that is because dumpers need a lot of alone time to live their life the way they had envisioned. Quite frankly, they are 11.1%. There are also exes who come back in order to make things right between the two of you as well as to alleviate any hard feelings. But unless you've committed some of the typical post-breakup mistakes, getting back with an ex is not dependent on you—but rather on your ex and the months and years of time. Your ex might have left you because they felt like it, and knew that when they decided to come back in their own time, you would be willing to take them again. 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